Does it want to be hugged?
International or National “Hug Your Cat”days in late May or early June can be a bit perplexing. After all, would you really hug your cat more because of something in your calendar? The pleasure of receiving unconditional love from your cat will make any day better.
From a human perspective, hugging creates and reinforces the bond with your pet, strengthening the emotional bond. You feel warmth, connected and trusted. When the cat shows happiness by purring, it can make the human happier too. Physical touch with another living being is a known stress reliever, reducing anxiety. Hugging can release oxytocin, the “happiness hormone” contributing to overall well-being.
A hugged cat can also feel safe and comfortable and when it does, it can start purring or fall asleep confident that nothing bad can happen. However, if the hug is too tight or goes on for too long, the cat may feel caught or trapped and fight against the hug with teeth and claws! Cats tend to prefer initiating contact with a human. Often they will have a favourite human in a family and only snuggle with someone else if the favourite person is not there.
Cats are independent animals and seek companionship and affection on their own terms. They often feel more relaxed and content after a good meal. Sitting down somewhere comfortable for you and your cat after giving them their food may encourage them to come and snuggle up to you. If that becomes a routine for you both you can have a “Hug Your Cat” and “Snuggle Your Human” day every day!
When does your cat come and cuddle up to you?
Did you know?
Oxytocin: Often called the “love hormone,” oxytocin is essential for childbirth, breastfeeding, and strong parent-child bonding. It can also help promote trust, empathy, and bonding in relationships. Levels generally increase with physical affection.
